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A dream wedding is bound to give a sensational start to your life. Day in and day out, you might have dreamt of getting married in style. So now is the time to make your dream come true.A wedding theme can give your marriage the right kind of elegance and class. Wedding themes are intended to add a charming appeal to the joyous celebrations, planned over a period of time. Wedding themes make the auspicious event more memorable and leaves an impression on the couple and the guests alike.

There can be umpteen of themes which could be chosen for your great day. There is no need to rack your brains for a stupendous theme. Here we are providing you with lots of themes to choose from. You will spoil yourself with choices which could be used for the great day.Getting married on Valentine’s Day and having a heart wedding theme can be fun. Have your invitation cards in the shape of a heart in shades of red and pink. Have of red roses for decorating the venue and also for your bouquet. Fill the place with lots of heart shaped balloons to create the right ambience. Get a heart shaped cake baked for the ceremony. Give a rose as party favors to all your guests.

How about getting married besides a roaring sea with shimmering sand filled with sea shells. Wedding invitations can have pictures of beautiful mermaids, sand art pictures and decorated with sea shells. Sea creature decoration will pep up your theme. Put shell decorated candle stands and flower vases .Have centerpieces in the form of beautiful crystal bowls filled with sands of varied hues. Decorate your wedding cake with oyster shells and pearls. The couture of the bride and the groom can be in shades of sea green,blue etc.

How would you react when your beloved daughter shows up with a diamond ring and a boyfriend? She has come of age, so soon! It seems as if yesterday she was born. Dad had nestled the little one in his arms, changed her nappies, washed her drools and kept awake by her side when she was ill. How fast your little one has transformed into gorgeous young lady? Time just flies away. You must have dreaded the day when you would be giving away your loving daughter to her prince charming. Since the time she was born you might have had the fear that one fine day your little girl will bid adieu and be the part of another male’s life.

Now that your daughter is going to tie the nuptial knot you being the father of the bride have a lot of responsibilities to shoulder. You have to plan and prepare for your sweetheart well in advance. You have to pay a lot of bills. Find out what you should know about wedding planning and budgeting so that you can make wise decisions and make your daughter’s wedding a successful and memorable affair.

Weddings can be elaborate and very expensive or they can be simple and affordable. The decision of family budget should be taken together by the bride, groom and their families. The bride’s family covers most of the expenses but the latest trend is that the bride and the groom themselves bear all the expenses. The expense of the reception is about 50% of the total budget and are borne by the father of the bride.

Walking down the aisle is an important and heart wrenching experience for both the daughter and the father. It is an age old custom and often touching part of the ceremony.Dads are putting their daughter literally and figuratively into the arms of a handsome young man. But it is a wonderful gesture of trust and confidence which you have in your new son in law The reception is the time to meet all your kith and kin, to celebrate with them and congratulate your daughter and her husband on their new adventure together.

Being the father of the bride, it is inevitable to raise a toast to the newly weds.He has mixed feelings on this great day. He is a happy as well as sad as he gives away the apple of his eye to her dream husband. At this moment he is brimming with emotions. His hoary hair and twinkling eyes filled with tears spell it all, his feelings, his emotions and his concern for his little one.Before raising the toast introduce yourself as many guests may not know you. Welcome the groom into the family.Tell him your expectations from him. Give him a piece of advice on his new life.

Share some experiences of your daughter with the guests. Tell her dreams, aspirations and habits to the groom. Reveal some funny incidents to make everyone laugh. A good idea can be to prepare a slide show of photographs and play some videos of your little one right from birth up to this day. Relive those moments of joy and togetherness. It will surely be a different experience for everyone, specially you and your daughter. Keep some tissue handy as you are bound to get emotional.

Tell your son in law what advice you got from your father in law. Bless the couple with kind words .Inject some humor in your wedding speech. Thank all your guests and be grateful to all those people who put in their effort to make your daughter’s wedding a great success.Relax and enjoy .You will meet many new people who are friend of the groom and his family. Stay sober .If you are serving alcohol at the reception, you need not indulge in drinking, or drink in moderation .You are the host and your behavior should be acceptable.

Another custom important for the dad is the father daughter dance. Make the dance a positive and memorable one. If you can dance well then it is not a problem. But if you are not used it, join a dance class to surprise the guests with your swift steps.Once the wedding is over, the father has another challenging task to become a great father in law to his daughter’s new husband and to adapt to his new role in his daughter’s life.
Getting your sweet daughter married can be a challenging task. But if things are properly planned and executed it can become a memorable and cherished affair of your life.

Jun 29
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A fairy tale wedding can also add a lot of splendor and charm in your jubilant festivities.Choose a location which is apt for your theme. It could be a royal castle or in the midst of a picturesque country inn. A mesmerizing idea could be to have a Cindrella wedding theme Get the invitation cards printed in the form of Cindrella’s glass slippers. Gift special favors to your guests which could be cards, napkins, knives, fretwork etc. Beautifully chiseled marble statues can be displayed to set the mood according to the theme. Have the bridal attire made of silk or satin and embellished with pearls.

Having a Christmas wedding theme could be equally appealing. It is the time of the year when friends and family gather to celebrate. There is a chill in the air and a fine aroma of winter flowers adds to the joyous mood. The church is already decked up for the festival. Red and green are natural colors for Christmas wedding theme. You can have your invitation card in the shape of a Christmas tree or it can have a picture of Santa Clause. Have a décor with lots of Christmas trees adorned with sparkling stars to suit the occasion. Have a lovely bridal gown and top it off with a long red velvet cape. You can also add a red satin sash to the waist of your gown to enhance its beauty.Have a close friend or relative dress up as Santa Clause and let him shower the guests with some exquisite favors.

A winter wonderland wedding theme can also be a good option if you plan to have the reception amidst lots of snow. Have your invitation card with pictures of snow flakes and golden stars. For the decoration, have large willow branches sprayed with golden glitter.  Put sprigs of holly to compliment the décor. Have other shimmering decorations to add just the right kind of ambience. Set candles and small flower arrangements in the middle of snow. For your attire have lots of sparkling beads and sequins to evoke that snowiness of the season.
Spring wedding theme is also a sought after theme. Spring is the time of renewal and rebirth. Flowers bloom and the earth awakens from its winter slumber.Organize the function in a garden setting with lots of fresh spring flowers to harmonize with your theme. These could be daffodils, crocuses, hyacinth, lilies, tulips and roses. Keep your wedding colors light and airy to reflect the renewal of spring.

You can have your trousseau in light pastel shades such as beige or hues of blue. If you plan your reception later in the evening have lots of candles. They give a soft and romantic look to your celebrations. As party favors give bulbs seeds and cuttings of some flowering plants which could always remind them of your grand celebrations.These days Indian wedding theme is also up for grabs. It would be a more traditional and extravagant affair.

Host your celebrations in a royal palace of Rajasthan. Palatial mansions, stupendous decoration, ceremonious rituals, ethnic mouthwatering Indian cuisine and shimmering bridal deck up are the cynosure of all eyes.
The main attraction of this theme is exchange of garlands called jaimals by the bride and the groom. Creative designer garlands made of tissue roses and flower petals are the latest fad.

The ambience becomes truly celestial with chanting of verses from the holy epics and the blowing of the conch. Playing the shehanai is the trademark of an Indian wedding.Have a heavy bridal lehnga, embellished with golden lace and sparkling sequins for bridal trousseau.As the festivities come to a close have a breathtaking fire display to sparkle the night sky.

Enjoy the rich cultural heritage of India during your wedding.Whatever be the wedding theme plan and prepare well in advance to enjoy to the hilt.Wedding themes fill the event with grandeur and elegance. So get ready for a big bash with your exquisite wedding theme.

Jun 29

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A wedding is a once in a lifetime event which leaves fond memories lingering in the minds of the people who joined in holy matrimony. A wedding idea can make your dream wedding more memorable and leave an indelible mark upon the two of you and the guests.

You can have a plethora of wedding ideas which can add the much needed splendor and joy to it Some ideas are being listed here to make your wedding the talk of the town.If you love and care for nature go for an environmental friendly wedding. Go for electronic invitation .Prepare a beautiful e-card and mail it to all your near and dear ones.Embellish your decorations with locally grown flowers .Contact the local florist.Go for the reception in a beautifully adorned carriage drawn by horses. This will add an element of regal style and will be appreciated by your guests.

Have the ceremony during the day time to save some energy. Tickle the taste buds of your guests with organic food. Have your mother’s wedding dress revamped for your trousseau. Go for an emerald green gown so that it harmonizes with your wedding idea. Have lots of ornamental plants in your décor to give that fresh and soothing look.There are options galore if you want an out door wedding. Add an element of nature and adventure if you are tying the knot outdoors. .

You can get married on the golden sand of a picturesque beach with azure waters and white surf, giving you a panoramic view of the sea.If you love a ride on the boat, go for a cruise wedding in Goan style with hot goan cuisines to be savored by your guests.Opt for exotic locations which could be a desolate island, scenic hills or a palace in Rajasthan.

If you plan to get married in a palace you will spoil yourself with choices. Host the event in palatial mansions which remind you of the royal elegance and style. Have a stupendous decoration, epicurean delicacies and flamboyant bridal deck up. Shower your guests with royal attention. Have a scintillating fireworks display to conclude the royal occasion.

If you are more adventurous and are ready to shell out those extra bucks, go for a mid air wedding in a cable car or a hot air balloon. But you will miss the company of your guests.These days wedding ideas such as flight wedding, under water wedding etc, are catching up.

Have a wedding idea depicting the seasons. You can choose any of the four seasons. Spring wedding is the most sought after idea. You can have lots of spring flowers in shades of tangerine, white, lemon yellow and the like. They diffuse a fine aroma in the surrounding. If you plan to get married in winter choose a place which has lots of snow.Have a picnic wedding idea. It can be hosted in any park, water garden, near a waterfall etc. Carry picnic baskets to the venue.

It is often seen that children feel left out in wedding celebrations. Have a wedding idea which will be loved by kids. Have your reception in an open space with lots of games and entertainment for the kids. Arrange for some swings and joy rides. The kids will love it.Whatever be your wedding idea plan everything well. Leave nothing to chance. Let your imagination flow and make your dream wedding come true.

Jun 29

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Getting married is a roller coaster ride. It is both hectic and unnerving. You need to do a lot of planning and preparation well in advance. Planning for your wedding can be mind boggling, challenging and body draining. Despite that if a few things are kept in mind it is going to be a cherished moment of your life.

Make a checklist of things to be done. Prioritize your task. Jot down all the tasks which need to be done with their deadlines and keep marking things which are accomplished.
Take that extra step to get things done. Read, surf the net and research as much as you can. Take one step at a time. Leave no stone unturned.

Visit marriage expositions, fairs and the like. Here you are bound to get lots of ideas and help to plan your wedding.Discuss budget details. Take help of budgeting tools available in magazines and on wedding websites. Prices can easily spiral out of control so make a rough estimate of each aspect of the wedding.

Start early, at least 8 to 9 months prior the wedding. Book the reception hall well in advance so that you don’t have to pay extra buck at the eleventh hour. Book the photographer, the caterer, the florist, the musicians etc after having an idea of their respective domains.

Take help from family and friends. It is almost impossible to manage everything single handedly. Enjoy yourself, take friends along. Make it fun not a job. Pool all your resources to save some money.  Have a back up for weather and transportation. Ensure parking facility is available in the vicinity of the reception hall.

Be very specific about what will be spoken during vows. Leave not a word to chance as it is too important. Get in touch with your marriage officiant for help.   Join a dance class with your fiancé so that you can show some nice moves on the wedding day and surprise all and sundry. You will also know him/her better.

Talk to a couple married for some time for some extra tips. Have an attendant always at your disposal. She should be your support and strength on the auspicious day. She should carry a vanity kit for you. It should contain your make up kit for touch ups, a bottle of water, some glucose powder in case you feel drained out. The kit must also have tissue paper some tampons, needle and thread etc. Have her in charge of primping you before major photo sessions. Ask your hair stylist to teach her how to remove the veil without mussing your hair style.

Get the two of you clicked before you are too tired and drained in the ceremony. Get at least 20 to 30 shots to get that perfect picture which will be a prized possession for the two of you. Have a photograph with each of the bridesmaid alone. They make great gifts.
Always keep an extra pair of shoes handy in case something goes wrong.

Get a massage 2 to 3 days prior to the wedding. Facials need to be done a month ago. Don’t use any new skin products a few days prior the wedding. Your skin may not respond positively. No drinking the night before .It causes skin flakiness. Manage to have a good sleep the night before. Stay positive. Pray to the Almighty.

Eat something after the ceremony at the church is over and you are driving to the reception hall as later on you will be too busy attending the guests Postpone honeymoon for a day as you will be too exhausted after the hectic day. Start your new life when you are recharged and fresh. Have a beautiful marriage and a wonderful life ahead.
Getting married is a roller coaster ride. It is both hectic and unnerving. You need to do a lot of planning and preparation well in advance. Planning for your wedding can be mind boggling, challenging and body draining. Despite that if a few things are kept in mind it is going to be a cherished moment of your life.

Make a checklist of things to be done. Prioritize your task. Jot down all the tasks which need to be done with their deadlines and keep marking things which are accomplished.
Take that extra step to get things done. Read, surf the net and research as much as you can. Take one step at a time. Leave no stone unturned.

Visit marriage expositions, fairs and the like. Here you are bound to get lots of ideas and help to plan your wedding.Discuss budget details. Take help of budgeting tools available in magazines and on wedding websites. Prices can easily spiral out of control so make a rough estimate of each aspect of the wedding.

Start early, at least 8 to 9 months prior the wedding. Book the reception hall well in advance so that you don’t have to pay extra buck at the eleventh hour. Book the photographer, the caterer, the florist, the musicians etc after having an idea of their respective domains.

Take help from family and friends. It is almost impossible to manage everything single handedly. Enjoy yourself, take friends along. Make it fun not a job. Pool all your resources to save some money.  Have a back up for weather and transportation. Ensure parking facility is available in the vicinity of the reception hall.

Be very specific about what will be spoken during vows. Leave not a word to chance as it is too important. Get in touch with your marriage officiant for help.   Join a dance class with your fiancé so that you can show some nice moves on the wedding day and surprise all and sundry. You will also know him/her better.

Talk to a couple married for some time for some extra tips. Have an attendant always at your disposal. She should be your support and strength on the auspicious day. She should carry a vanity kit for you. It should contain your make up kit for touch ups, a bottle of water, some glucose powder in case you feel drained out. The kit must also have tissue paper some tampons, needle and thread etc. Have her in charge of primping you before major photo sessions. Ask your hair stylist to teach her how to remove the veil without mussing your hair style.

Get the two of you clicked before you are too tired and drained in the ceremony. Get at least 20 to 30 shots to get that perfect picture which will be a prized possession for the two of you. Have a photograph with each of the bridesmaid alone. They make great gifts.
Always keep an extra pair of shoes handy in case something goes wrong.

Get a massage 2 to 3 days prior to the wedding. Facials need to be done a month ago. Don’t use any new skin products a few days prior the wedding. Your skin may not respond positively. No drinking the night before .It causes skin flakiness. Manage to have a good sleep the night before. Stay positive. Pray to the Almighty.

Eat something after the ceremony at the church is over and you are driving to the reception hall as later on you will be too busy attending the guests Postpone honeymoon for a day as you will be too exhausted after the hectic day. Start your new life when you are recharged and fresh. Have a beautiful marriage and a wonderful life ahead.

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Health is wealth, so goes an old adage and it is quite apt. Health and beauty are essential features of any marriage. If preparation for your marriage is giving you cold feet, relax for a while, pay due attention to your health too because that is the most important part of your marriage.

Here are a few quick tips to stay in the pink of health and radiate the beauty around.

To get into shape for your marriage start early, as early as you can at least 8 to 10 months prior the wedding.If you have a perfect figure well and good but then too do some physical activity to burn out those extra calories. Join a gymnasium or aerobic classes to get rid of that flab. Swim, cycle take the stairs instead of the elevator. Walking also has its benefits. Walk at least 4 to 5 kilometers per day.

Have a balanced diet. Eat whole grains. Mix different grains such as barley, maize and flaxseed. Go green. Have lots of fruits and vegetables consisting loads of vitamins and fibers. It is recommended to have at least 5 servings of these. Take fruits and vegetables of 5 different colors for best results. It is advised to detoxify your system once a week.

Don’t binge on fatty food. Limit munching of fried items and candies. Limit your alcohol consumption to minimum, however red wine is claimed good for the heart .That does not mean you booze recklessly.

Have a good night sleep. At least 6 to 8 hours is ideal. Sleeping on your back keeps off wrinkles.Join a yoga or meditation session to have peace of mind as you will be running from pillar to post to get thing done for your great day. Take care to the wellness part too.Go to the spa or Jacuzzi to unwind. Now here are some beauty tips for all of you who want to look scintillating on your great day.

To avoid wrinkles and tanned skin stay in shade. Use sunscreen lotion with high SPF to protect yourself from the blistering sun. Apply the lotion half an hour before venturing in the sun. Use it before you go for a swim too. Reapplication is advisable after every 2 to three hours.

Avoid high heeled shoes as they may give you back ache and sore feet. Take off the shoes whenever you are relaxing. Pamper yourself with a foot massage. Get toe nails trimmed to size. Get a manicure and pedicure done to put up that well groomed look. Start your day with a cup of lukewarm water with lemon and flush the toxic elements away.

Maintain perfect posture. Don’t slouch as slouching makes you look shorter and sturdier.

Take care of your eyes as they are your window to the world. Protect them from the glaring sun by using goggles when outdoors. Use tea bags or cucumber slices to cool them off.

On your wedding day use waterproof eye make up as you are bound to get emotional.Now some tips for your raven tress .Get it properly trimmed. If you have long hair plait them lightly or use a silk cloth beneath your head while sleeping so that your hair does not get tangled and damaged.

Use good quality shampoo and conditioner for your crowning glory. Don’t use the blower on your hair too often. Let it dry naturally if you are not short of time. Don’t use the brush too soon. Try some hair color if you are a color buff.Now for the make up. Blend your make up well especially at the corner of your eyes. For applying loose powder and blush use brushes made of natural bristles.

Use a timeless and natural shade of lipstick for your wedding day and keep it handy for touch ups.Smile as much as you can as it relives your muscles. If something embarrassing happens put up a big smile and take things easy. So all said and done, bring that natural glow and radiance from within. Keep your cool. Things will fall into place .Get ready to put your best foot forward. Have a nice time!